Hi and Assalamualaikum,

It’s 2018 already! How time flies. So, we’re gonna talk about what the header said. As everyone knows, the gossips has been spreading all over Malaysia already, the very top hot ‘selebrity news’ about Sufian Suhaimi and Elfira Loy. Well, I don’t really want to take part in this kind of gossip  because, you know, I know that it’s always hurt when we are either left or being left. It’s always been the saddest part of our life. But out of all these, there is always something that we need to learn and take it as a lesson of life.

Sometimes when we’re happy, we have that eagerness to show to people out there what we’re doing, what we have and even what’s going on now with our life. Well people, some things are not good to show your things off to the public. Sometimes it may eat us up, in a way,  we get ashamed when people knows we don’t own it anymore. However, in terms of people, we as a musleem need to believe that god has arranged the sequence of human that will come and go and stay in our life. Jodoh is takdir, takdir falls onto believing in qadak and qadar. Everything has been written. Oh ya, just a friendly reminder here I’m not talking here religiously, about god and islam because I wanna show you that I am alim and sort of (some people just view me as ustazah lol xD they better live under my ketiak bij). No, this is the truth thing. Everyone has experience person/people we give our love to, sacrificing feelings and everything but in the end of the day, they left. It’s god plan. They may not have the intention to leave, but situation asked them to do so.

Back to the topic, I saw a lot of shameless things in my twitter, some are promoting to download an apps of which to find a sugar daddy. Girl, do you even know that having sugar daddy is a shameful thing to tell people? Sometimes these kids gotta learn what is considered as malu and what kind of thing should be spread to people. And a recent video of ‘manja girl’ who was hungry and wanna eat cendol. To the boyfriend, yes we know your girl is cute. Yes she is. But please keep the video to yourself, no need to publish it to the public. Because some things are meant to be secret and private. People are getting eager telling others of thing that is very inappropriate :’)

Nah, it’s okay lah. We knew what’s good and what’s not should be enough to survive already. I am not good either to really differentiate what shouldn’t be expose to the public and what should, you know sometimes I do expose myself, my problems, my life or even my so-called ‘privacy’. I’m still new to a so-called ‘professional life’. I’m still young in this adulthood life, just 2 years entering this new phase of life in which sometimes I acted like a whole bullshits and bitchy. I mean, I’m just human and a freaking woman. I decide too fast, I don’t do long thinking, I said whatever that satisfies my anger, I do ridiculous actions. I’m just tryna expose who I am most of the time and sometimes it goes wrong 🤣 Life is all about learning. It’s a learning process each and every moment. Take lesson and improve ourselves.

If we’re not ready to pass through something that is so hard for us to overcome, it’s okay to sit still and enjoy the time we have. They said YOLO. When the time comes, that’s mean we’re ready enough to go through it. If you said life is unfair, you’re wrong. Life is fair because it’s always been unfair to everyone of us. Fair enough right? Think and reflect ourselves.

So that’s all for my first post in 2018. Hope you guys have a wonderful year in 2018! May all good comes all the way to us and we can be better than previous year!

Love,
Pia, Opie, whatever you call me!




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